Do not Get Angry

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
الحمدلله والصلاة والسلام على رسول الله وعلى آله وصحبه أجمعين
Do not Get Angry
Showing good manners is a part
of Islam. Islam always teaches the people how to behave with any being
even with all creations of Allah. Allah has sent Our Messenger (PBUH) to
teach the original morality of lives which are so much important to us.
Even Prophet (PBUH) has said it that,
“ I have been delivered to develop characters of the whole Human being”

Let we discuss some parts of his teachings that what he advises us during the time of our angry:

It is also because good manners that are innate do not disappear from a
human being whereas good manners that are acquired may vanish from a
person in many instances since it requires constant practice and effort
as well as exercise and hard work. It also requires that one be reminded
of it whenever there occurs something that affects a human being. This
is why when a man once came to the Messenger of Allaah (sallAllaahu
‘alayhi wa sallam) and said to him: “O Messenger of Allaah, advise me”,
he (sallAllaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam) said: “Do not get angry.” The man
then repeated his request several times, upon which the Prophet
continued to reply: “Do not get angry.” [2]

The Prophet (sallAllaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam) also said: “The strong
person is not the one who wrestles and overpowers his opponents. Rather
the strong person is the one who controls himself in times of anger.”
[3]

So a strong person is not someone who wrestles with people and
overpowers them, He is someone “who controls himself in times of anger.”
He takes hold of himself and restrains himself during instances when he
becomes angry.

A person controlling himself in times of anger is considered a
characteristic of good manners. So if you become angry, do not let your
anger penetrate, rather seek refuge in Allaah from the accursed Devil.
And if you are standing, then sit down. If you are sitting, then lie
down. And if your anger increases, then perform ablution (wudoo) until
it goes away.

A person may acquire and earn good manners by way of training (himself),
working hard at it and through constant practice. So he may obtain good
manners through one of the following methods:

First: By contemplating on the Book of Allaah and the Sunnah of His
Messenger: One should look up the texts that show the virtue of the
particular noble characteristic that he wishes to characterize himself
with. This is since when a believer sees some texts that praise a
characteristic or action, he implements them. [4]

The Prophet (sallAllaahu
‘alayhi wa sallam) indicated this when he said: “The example of a good
companion and an evil companion is like that of a seller of musk and a
blacksmith. The seller of musk either sells you (perfume), gives you
free samples or you get a pleasing smell from him. As for the example of
an evil companion – such as a blacksmith – he either burns your clothes
or you get a nasty smell from him.” [5]

Second: He should accompany those who are known for having good manners
whilst staying far away from those who possess bad manners and poor
actions. This is such that he turns this companionship of his into an
educational institute that assists him in (his goal of) obtaining good
manners. The Prophet (sallAllaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam) said: “A man is
upon the religion of his close friend, so let each of you look into whom
he takes as a close friend.” [6]

urification (of the soul) cannot be achieved except by way of the
messengers as stated by Ibn Al-Qayyim when he said: “Purifying the souls
is harder and more difficult than curing the bodies. So whoever
purifies his soul through exercise, hard work and being in isolation –
all of which the messengers did not come with – he is like a sick person
that tries to cure himself based on his own opinion. Where is his
opinion with respect to the expertise of a doctor?! The messengers are
the doctors of the hearts – there is no way to purify and rectify the
hearts except through their way, at their hands and by totally
submitting and complying with them. And we ask Allaah for His
assistance!” [Madaarij-us-Saalikeen (2/300)]

[5] Reported by Al-Bukhaaree (no. 2101 & 5534) and Muslim (no. 146);
An-Nawawee said: “This shows the virtue of accompanying righteous and
good people – those who possess chivalry, good manners, piety,
knowledge, and good behavior. It also shows the prohibition of
accompanying evil people, innovators, and those who backbite people or
who are very wicked and so on, i.e. other types of condemnable
characteristics.” [See Sharh Saheeh Muslim

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